Often times when someone is a good listener, they are also someone who asks good questions.
What do I mean by that?
Good questions aren't just about getting facts and aren't opinions disguised with a question mark at the end. Instead, they are engaging. Inviting discovery and going deeper into what has been stated.
Good questions don't steer the conversation where the listener desires to go, but instead tracks with the person who is speaking.
The problem is that we may not have many examples in our lives of people who ask good questions. Questions that are for our sake.
Who are the people in your life who are good at asking you questions and how do those people make you feel?
Michelle is a Spiritual Director and End of Life Doula. She is the founder of Abide in the Spirit.
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